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someone asked, "who is more popular in the workplace, chicken chicks or Wolong?"

my answer is: "Wolong

(Zhuge Liang)

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in terms of intelligence and ability to work, there is not much difference between these two people. Where is the real gap?

back then, chicken chicks

(Pang Tong)

went to Sun Quan and Liu Bei for interviews successively, but the results were not very satisfactory.

Sun Quan was upset at the first sight of Pang Tong, because Pang Tong's appearance was really shabby, with thick eyebrows raising his nose, black face and short beard.

but after all, it was recommended by Lu Su, and it was not easy to reply directly, so I still braved to chat with him.

Sun Quan asked him, "what can you do and what can you do?"

Pang Tong was not modest and replied to Sun Quan, "I can do anything. Nothing can stop me."

Sun Quan felt even more unhappy when he heard this. This guy didn't know how to be modest, so he went on to ask him, "what about you and my governor Zhou Yu?"

Pang Tong said proudly, "I'm better than him."

when he heard such an answer, Sun Quan was furious and left in a huff, only to be ugly, and even uttered wild words, so arrogant and insolent.

Pang Tong was also given the cold shoulder when he met Liu Bei later, mainly because of his image.

Pang Tong was sloppily dressed on the day of the interview, and Liu Bei frowned when he saw him.

what is more annoying than his sloppy clothes is that his behavior is still so arrogant and insolent, and Liu Bei doesn't salute even at the sight of Liu Bei, which annoys Liu Bei.

finally, because of Zhuge Liang's face, Liu Bei gave Pang Tong, a county magistrate, and sent him away.

compared with Pang Tong, Zhuge Liang has an advantage in image, which can be described as crushing.

Zhuge Liang, like Zhou Yu, is a very good-looking person.

Liu Bei was surprised to see Zhuge Liang for the first time. It was described in the book:

"his body is eight feet long, his face is like a crown jade, he wears a nylon scarf on his head, and he is dressed in a crane. He looks like an immortal."

some people will say that Zhuge Liang's attitude is also very arrogant, ah, let Liu Bei visit three times before waiting, and the third time also let Liu Bei wait outside, sleeping by himself in the house.

although this is the case, Zhuge Liang did not know anything about the whole process, that is to say, it was not intentional, or at least gave people the impression that it was unintentional.

Let's take a look at one more detail-- after Zhuge Liang woke up, when the boy around him told him that Uncle Liu had been waiting here for a long time, Zhuge Liang immediately got up and asked why you didn't report it earlier, and then went into the back hall to change clothes and came out neatly to meet him.

Pang Tong is indeed very talented, but in terms of dealing with people, he does not have an advantage over Zhuge Liang in terms of image, which is why I say that Zhuge Liang will be more popular.

A person's image often determines his level of income, the height of his career, and even his whole life.

it is human instinct to judge people by their appearance

A handsome guy with a beautiful woman is a fairy tale, while a beautiful woman with a wild animal often becomes a joke and attracts a lot of sarcasm.

whether you are willing to admit it or not, the world depends on the face, because judging people by their appearance is a kind of human instinct.

Xiao Longnu fainted at the mouth of the valley of despair, dying and dying.

at this time, Gong Sun, the master of the valley, happened to be passing by, and the servant said to him, Master Gu, there is a girl in front of her.

Gong Sun, sitting in the sedan chair, waved a big hand and left her alone. Let's just let her go and move on.

however, when Gong Sun Zhi passed by Xiao Longnu, he glanced at the fact that there was such an immortal-looking woman in the world who immediately ordered people to stop the sedan chair.

"it is better to save a life than to build a seven-level pagoda. Take this girl back to the valley for treatment."

those who are good-looking and have a good image tend to have more opportunities to be treated more gently.

"it is better to save a life than to build a seven-level pagoda. Take this girl back to the valley for treatment."

those who are good-looking and have a good image tend to have more opportunities to be treated more gently.

in the workplace, people with good looks and good temperament tend to be more popular and more likely to be treated kindly, and even if they make mistakes, they are more likely to be forgiven. People with good images are more likely to talk to customers when they go out to meet customers.

there is no need to criticize this phenomenon, it is because of human nature.

therefore, I quite agree with this point of view, usually to control their own mouth, more fitness, keep in shape; to buy a few better outfits to dress up, important occasions will use …...

most of the time, the image is good, and it can really be eaten.

on the one hand, it is out of human nature, and people like to be kind to good things; on the other hand, it is because everything about a person is hidden behind the image.

judging people by their appearance is a kind of prejudice, but it is also reasonable.

from a person's image temperament and dress, we can more or less see his attitude towards life, level, and taste.

and this will also affect his life.

exquisite, is a person's dignity

I have read a story told by Ms. Yang Lan.

at that time, she was studying in the UK and was refused many times to find a job.

once, an interviewer thought that her shapeThe elephant didn't match her resume and refused to ask her any more questions.

her landlord is a very demanding middle-aged woman who must turn off the lights and go to bed before 12:00. She is not allowed to enter her living room unless she is neatly dressed. Yang Lan must wear lipstick when she has guests.

once, Yang Lan just finished washing his hair and sat on the bed, flipping through the job postings in the newspaper while eating rolls.

the landlord rushed over, grabbed her bread and newspaper, and yelled, "you unqualified girl, get out of my house."

an angry Yang Lan, with loose hair, wrapped a coat over her pajamas and rushed out the door. She entered a cafe.

opposite her sat an old lady who was more elegant and well-dressed than the landlord. She took a note from the side, wrote a line and handed it to Yang Lan: "the bathroom is around the corner on your left."

messy hair, even a little bread crumbs around the nose, although the coat is of good quality, it is worn out by baggy pajamas.

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Yang Lan looked down on herself for the first time, how disrespectful she was in such a dress that she made others think that I didn't respect them either.

returned to her seat again, the old lady had left, and there was an extra sentence on the note:

"as a woman, you must be delicate. This is a woman's dignity."

in fact, being born as a human being, be it a man or a woman, refinement is a person's dignity.

because behind this lies his attitude towards life: hugging, confronting, dodging, compromising, fastidious or settling.

people who are really excellent and well-bred tend to pay more attention to image, and even if they fall to the bottom, they will not live or be careless.

this is a noble attitude, and the result will be a superior life.

practice a good image and do four things well

the image of a person does not only refer to his good looks and clothes, but also to his temperament, aura, and state of mind.

read, see the world, and improve your temperament and knowledge

A person's appearance and external image can still be made up for by talent, while internal temperament, talent, and self-cultivation are often a person's best business card, and the shelf life is also the longest.

I often talk about this with people around me. Once, when I attended a forum summit, a chubby girl came on stage and was so corny and incongruous next to a group of beautiful workplace "bone spirits".

but when she opens her mouth, you will feel the powerful aura and unusual charm.

Talent and thought, no matter how advanced cosmetics, no matter how good the quality of clothes can not dress up.

keep your mouth shut, spread your legs, and keep in shape

the difference between buyer show and seller show often comes from the huge difference in figure. It is very important to develop the habit of exercise and fitness so that you can have a good figure.

the mental state of a person who exercises regularly is very different from that of a person who often does not exercise.

so, please shut up, do not eat Haisai, unrestrained, but also please open your legs, exercise more, it is really important to keep in shape.

learn to communicate and talk well

A good word warms the winter in three winters, while bad words hurt the cold in June.

people who can talk can often make people feel like spring breeze with a single sentence, but they can't speak, and their image will be greatly compromised in the eyes of others.

A person's way of speaking shows his self-cultivation and knowledge.

dress and take care of yourself

what kind of clothes to wear on any occasion, not seductive, not affected, not vulgar, generous and decent, elegant.

people rely on clothes and horses on the saddle. I never think that a person who pays attention to his external image is superficial. People who pay attention to clothing and make-up tend to love life more.

most of the time, your image often determines your life and, more directly, your career and income.

Please live seriously for the rest of your life, and don't make do with it or be careless. Only in this way will life be gentle to you.