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it is the duty to help, but not to help

A man must learn three skills in his life: the eye learns to do things, the mouth learns to be a man, and the ear learns from himself.

there is nothing wrong with helping others, but not everyone is worthy of our kindness.

on Weibo, the refusal of a well-known lawyer to change shops on a train has sparked a lot of heated discussion.

the lawyer sent the two children to school and bought two train tickets for the upper berth.

after getting on the bus, he began to talk to someone about changing the lower berth.

the first boy hesitated to say yes, but later said that his leg had been hurt, so he refused to change.

the second boy refused without hesitation.

later, the Weibo lawyer, who has nearly 2 million followers, wrote down the experience:

words seem innocent and magnanimous, but the lines are full of accusations and curses about the two boys who are unwilling to change shops:

"as for those two boys, you did the right thing.

it's just that one day, you will be fathers, and sometimes you will show up with your children.

I hope you will not meet who you were in those days, but will meet girls who are willing to help others. "

A topic is specially added at the end of the article, which means

# Girls are kinder than boys #

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I didn't expect that as soon as this article "Train changing feeling" was posted, it was unanimously diss:

it is difficult to get tickets under the train during the first school season.

therefore, in order to buy a lower berth ticket, many people are either extremely lucky or open various kinds of members to speed up the robbery.

the lawyer, with two children, happened to buy two upper berths and felt that it was only natural to find someone to change the lower berth.

how can you swagger the lower bunk that others have grabbed with hard work by saying "it is inconvenient for me to take the child"?

the help of others is kind-hearted and kind-hearted, while being rejected is bad-hearted and vicious.

such an attitude towards others and self-discipline can reflect a person's self-cultivation and conduct.

in real life, "moral kidnapping" takes place every day:

female colleagues often rub against the car, and when the car owner is inconvenient, she will not only be ungrateful but also ridicule, "taking your car is to give you face. I have never seen such a stingy person before."

it is not convenient for girls on the bus to give up their seats during their menstrual period. When they meet an uncle, they are "young, but they don't know how to respect the old and love the young."

if any child in the village is promising and does not donate money or benefit his hometown, it is "wasting resources and making a long face for his hometown";

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there is a saying in Zengguang Xianwen: "be strict with yourself and be lenient to others."

morality is used to restrain oneself, not to regulate people.

it is undoubtedly the greatest immorality to take advantage of others and kidnap others for their own benefit from the very beginning.

in this world, not everyone owes you. It is the duty of others to help you. It is the duty not to help you. Don't take everything for granted.

there is a joke on the Internet that makes it very clear:

you are a prince and I am a princess at home.

your parents will go to the moon for you, and my family will catch soft-shelled turtles for me.

but society is not your parents, it will not spoil you.

people are people, so there is no need to be a man; the world is the world, and there is no need to deal with it meticulously.

be yourself. Don't do to others what you don't want.

make concessions only when you cherish them, and compromise only when you value them

the sign of a person's maturity is to stop arguing with his relatives and friends about the so-called length and to win or lose.

because we cherish it, we make concessions; because we value it, we compromise.

Zuo Zongtang, a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, liked to play go very much, and he was so skilled that he had few opponents.

once when he went on a micro-suit tour, he saw an old man with a chess array next to the sign of "the number one chess player in the world".

Zuo Zongtang was not convinced, so he immediately went to play chess with the old man. He did not expect that the old man would lose all three games.

Zuo Zongtang was confident and left happily.

before long, Mr. Zuo Zongtang returned to Korea and passed by again, so he played chess with the old man again.

but this time Zuo Zongtang unexpectedly lost three games and was beaten up by the old man.

Zuo Zongtang was surprised. The old man smiled and replied:

"Last time you had a task and wanted to lead your troops to fight, I could not demoralize you. Now that you have returned from victory, of course I will try my best to be unyielding!"

No one in this world is stupid. People who choose to make concessions and are willing to compromise are all because they take each other seriously.

if they can win, they do not have to win, they have the character of humility to give way to others; they can win but not necessarily win, and they have the mind to take a step back.

there is always someone around you who is willing to make concessions for you, take care of your feelings and tolerate your temper.

he may be your parents, your friend or your lover.

parents tolerate you, because as long as they live, you are still a child;

your lover tolerates you for fear of winning a quarrel and losing a relationship.

friends tolerate you, because you don't want to win the truth and lose the friendship.

you have to understand that everyone in this world has selfishness, and no one is willing to wronge himself to bow to another person.

Let your people not be afraid of you, because they value the relationship and cherish it, so they would rather play the loser than defeat the one they love.

A friend of mine who has been married for seven or eight years once said, "they all say that I am eloquent, but I am at home and can't beat anyone."

so don't look down on those who put up with you, and don't ignore those who tolerate you, because cherishing is precious enough for them!

the greatest evil of human nature is that it doesn't know how to be grateful.

Yuki Higano once said, "in this world, only the sun and the human heart cannot look directly at it."

the highest unfathomable is the human heart, and the most insatiable is also the human heart.

after "Brother Big clothes" Zhu Zhiwen became famous, he built roads for his hometown and renovated the kindergarten. Some local villagers relentlessly asked him to buy a car for each person in the village, plus 10,000 yuan.

ungrateful people only know how to take endlessly, do not know the return, no matter how much you give, he still feels that you owe him.

born as a human being, it is everyone's conscience and character to be grateful.

you don't have to return the favor by dripping water, but don't forget those who have helped you, taught you, and accompanied you.

because people are mutual, if you are kind to others, others will be kind to you.

the deep friendship between Zeng Guofan and his teacher Mu Chang-ah is still talked about by future generations.

when Zeng Guofan was young and went to Beijing to take the exam, the powerful Mu Chang-ah admired him very much and included him under his own door.

in this way, Zeng Guofan, without any background, relied on Muzhanga's guidance and recommendation, as well as his own integrity, incorruptibility, and moral conduct, and was deeply valued by Emperor Daoguang, and was continuously promoted within ten years.

later, Mu Chang-ah lost power, and many people were anxious to make a clean break with him, but Zeng Guofan thanked him for his kindness and often went to visit him.

even after Muzhanga's death for many years, Zeng Guofan did not forget his old love, often helped his descendants, and even offered to help renovate the Mu family's old house.

because of his extraordinary demeanor and breadth of mind, Zeng Guofan was good enough in his life of self-cultivation, family unity, governing the country, and pacifying the world.

it is good to have help all the way through life. Be grateful for all the favors, no matter how big or small they are.

as the saying goes, "Happiness never forgets the way to come, and draught never forgets the man who dug the well."

people who know how to repay their gratitude will get more and more help, and the road of life will become brighter and brighter.

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Yuki Higano once said, "in this world, only the sun and the human heart cannot look directly at it."

the highest unfathomable is the human heart, and the most insatiable is also the human heart.

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after "Brother Big clothes" Zhu Zhiwen became famous, he built roads for his hometown and renovated the kindergarten. Some local villagers relentlessly asked him to buy a car for each person in the village, plus 10,000 yuan.

ungrateful people only know how to take endlessly, do not know the return, no matter how much you give, he still feels that you owe him.

born as a human being, it is everyone's conscience and character to be grateful.

you don't have to return the favor by dripping water, but don't forget those who have helped you, taught you, and accompanied you.

because people are mutual, if you are kind to others, others will be kind to you.

the deep friendship between Zeng Guofan and his teacher Mu Chang-ah is still talked about by future generations.

when Zeng Guofan was young and went to Beijing to take the exam, the powerful Mu Chang-ah admired him very much and included him under his own door.

in this way, Zeng Guofan, without any background, relied on Muzhanga's guidance and recommendation, as well as his own integrity, incorruptibility, and moral conduct, and was deeply valued by Emperor Daoguang, and was continuously promoted within ten years.

later, Mu Chang-ah lost power, and many people were anxious to make a clean break with him, but Zeng Guofan thanked him for his kindness and often went to visit him.

even after Muzhanga's death for many years, Zeng Guofan did not forget his old love, often helped his descendants, and even offered to help renovate the Mu family's old house.

because of his extraordinary demeanor and breadth of mind, Zeng Guofan was good enough in his life of self-cultivation, family unity, governing the country, and pacifying the world.

it is good to have help all the way through life. Be grateful for all the favors, no matter how big or small they are.

as the saying goes, "Happiness never forgets the way to come, and draught never forgets the man who dug the well."

people who know how to repay their gratitude will get more and more help, and the road of life will become brighter and brighter.

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