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Voltaire, a famous philosopher, once said that it is not the distant mountains that make people tired, but a grain of sand in their shoes.

what can break a person is often not those difficult difficulties, but our own shackles.

there is nothing in the world to worry about.

Life is a door of trivial daily life. If you master the three keys, many things will be solved without doubt and worry-free.

first key: self-knowledge

the Old Master said, "those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise

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A man is wise to understand others, but to be able to see himself clearly is true wisdom.

Zhou Dongyu, after the double Golden Shadows of the post-90s generation, is firmly in the first echelon of the popular actress.

it is said that she is lucky, but in fact she is self-aware.

once, the crew of a large costume series invited her to play a role as a beauty.

it is the dream of many young actresses to play the role of beauty in ancient costumes, but Zhou Dongyu turned down this hot "big cake".

she said bluntly to the director:

"I can't act at all. I'm not the kind of beauty everyone thinks I am. No matter how much makeup I wear, I can't become the Xi Shi of Shen Yu or the Diao Chan of the month, and my childish figure is so embarrassing that this role is not for me."

if Zhou Dongyu had been open to all and acted whenever there was a play, he would not have had today's achievements and reputation.

how much ability you have and how much ability others boast about you are always two different things.

it's much easier to deceive yourself than to deceive others, but it's much harder to wake yourself up than others.

not deceiving yourself and pretending to sleep is the first step in knowing yourself.

face yourself sincerely and accept yourself calmly, the world will be broader.

second key: self-solving

when a person becomes a genius in some ways, he is bound to look "stupid" in others. after all, one cannot let one person take all the good things.

Qian Zhongshu, a typical intellectual, is unsociable and arrogant.

he always only agrees with a few friends who can talk to each other, and stays away from the sophisticated and hypocritical circle of human relations.

once an authoritative figure went to pay New year's greetings to Qian's family on the second day of the Lunar New year and said, "Happy Spring Festival" and was about to enter the door, but Qian Zhongshu only exposed some cracks in the door and said, "Thank you!" Thank you! I'm busy! I'm busy! "

when a good intention was turned away, the man was very unhappy and accused Qian Zhongshu of being impersonal.

as a matter of fact, the Qian couple are really busy writing and don't want to be disturbed by rich and idle people.

Qian Zhongshu, who has ever been proud, is just that there are more important things for him than communication.

as Yang Jiang wrote in the three of us:

"We seem to be proud to keep our distance from people who don't share the same mind. We are young and unsophisticated, but those who are the most sophisticated and know how to behave are also criticized. Zhong Shu and I solved ourselves in this way. "

people who are really good at communication may not be good at communication, but they must be good at self-interpretation.

it is more useful to reconcile with yourself and with your heart than with others.

third key: self-discipline

English football genius Best, who joined Manchester United at the age of 15 and won the Golden Globe at the age of 22, is one of the "sacred three heroes" of Manchester United club and can be called a winner in life.

however, Best's self-discipline was so poor that he soon fell into a life of being addicted to money and alcohol.

as a result, a generation of legends were forced to retire at the peak of 26 and died of liver disease at 59.

I have seen such a sentence in a book: what is difficult to do and what should be done are often the same thing, nothing meaningful is easy, and there is no easy word in adult life.

as the saying goes, adults are uncomfortable, but they are not adults.

how strong a person's self-discipline is, how close is his road to success.

in Ode to Joy, Andy, an elite in the financial world, has a regular schedule, insists on running in the morning, hardly watches TV or plays games, cooks at home when he has time, rarely orders takeout, and is keen on reading and learning.

"how can one be upright if one cannot exercise self-discipline?"

all excellence is supported by self-discipline.

self-knowledge, self-understanding, and self-discipline. May you have these three keys to be brave and determined in a wavering world.

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