May your body and mind be well, have a happy day, and have a loved one with you.
some time ago, a video of a peasant couple dancing went viral.
it turns out that many years ago, my husband was involved in a car accident, leaving serious psychological sequelae. As long as he can't see his wife, the husband will be nervous, twitching and shaking.
in order to help her husband regain his confidence and relieve her stress, the wife and her husband began to learn to dance.
they have no broad stage and no gorgeous lights, so they are singing and dancing in the fields and in front of their houses.
looking at the smile on each other's face, all the troubles of life suddenly disappear.
and every time they finish a dance, the couple hug each other.
thinking of the ups and downs and panic of these years, the two of them are both feeling and sweet.
what is the best way to live in life?
some people say that it can not only be from nine to five, but also wander around the world; some people say that it is full of friends on the one hand and the breeze and bright moon on the other.
in fact, only after you have really experienced the ups and downs of life will you have an epiphany:
there is nothing in mind, no illness in the body, and someone on the pillow is the best situation in the world.
take wealth as grass and body as treasure
Bacon said:
"one can do many stupid things in life, but the stupidest thing is to ignore health."
many people have been busy for most of their lives, tired for money and suffering for money. It was not until the body issued an early warning that I realized that "I am not sick" is the most proud thing in my life.
if one wants to be happy, one must first have the most solid foundation, that is, health.
having health, even if you fall to the bottom and fall into a desperate situation, you may counterattack.
if you lose your health, even if you are rich and rich, it will eventually come to naught.
the town millionaire ran about for most of his life. When he felt unwell, he thought of going to the hospital for an examination. The doctor told him that he needed to rest. He said in surprise:
"my time is precious. If I stay here for one more minute, I will lose a lot of wealth. Besides, with so many employees, who cares if I have a rest?"
the doctor did not speak, but took him to a graveyard and said to him:
awakens the dreamer.
when the rich man went back, he unloaded his previous job and went out for sightseeing with his family to recuperate his body.
people who have been alive for decades, whether full of bowls or destitute, are all fleeting in the blink of an eye. No matter how much money they earn, people fall ill, and no matter how much money they spend, they can't buy back the original body.
Haruki Murakami once said: the body is everyone's temple, no matter what is worshipped in it, it should be kept tough, beautiful and clean.
when people reach middle age, they more and more realize:
A healthy body can not only do what you want to do and make your life satisfactory, but also rely on your own ability to make the people around you happy.
if you keep the moon on the five lakes, don't worry about nowhere to hang the golden hook.
this life is not long, you can walk without illness or disaster, so be sure to be kind to your body.
living in good health is the biggest real estate in life!
I am frightened when I have something on my mind, but I have nothing on my mind.
there is a good saying: "everything starts from the heart, look down on the body light; troubles every day, do not pick up naturally no."
the reason why many people are upset often stems from these two things: one is that they can't get it, and the other is that they have lost it.
living in the world, living is a kind of mood, living is a kind of state of mind.
if you stick to your heart in everything, you will live a miserable life if you can't let it go.
Master Huineng told such a story:
A prisoner is locked up in a prison. The cell is so small that he can't even stretch his legs and feet. It's hard to live in it.
his heart was filled with resentment and injustice, feeling aggrieved and sad, thinking that living in such a small prison was no place for people to stay.
he curses heaven and earth like this every day, complaining constantly.
one day, a fly suddenly flew in from the window, buzzing and banging everywhere.
the man thought, "I've been bored enough. This annoying guy comes to annoy me again. It's so exasperating that I must catch you!"
he caught the fly carefully, but the fly was smarter than he was, and whenever it was about to be caught, it flew away quickly.
after tossing about for a long time, the man was so tired that he was out of breath and still didn't catch a fly, so he said with emotion:
"it seems that my cell is not small! I can't even catch a fly, so it's still pretty big here! "
at this time, he realized a truth: "if there is something in mind, the world is small, and there is nothing in mind."
as a philosopher once said, "disasters sometimes come not only from the outside world, but also from our hearts."
when a person is in an environment where there is nothing he can do, sadness or boredom will increase his unhappiness.
at this time, anyone and anything is a thorn in his side, not to mention chic!
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Life is indeed full of regret and frustration, but time will not stop and wait for you because of any of your emotions.
only when you liberate your heart and look down on a lot of meaningless things, can you meet the really good scenery.
Life is only a little more than 30,000 days, so why let those unworthy things tie the knot in your heart and make yourself restless?
Water to a dead end is a landscape, and a man to a desperate situation is rebirth.
when a person is in a good mood, his eyes will be filled with good scenery, so learn to let go and let the heart go back to zero.
May you look back on the years and share your heads with affection
Liu Yong once wrote such a paragraph in his works:
"it wasn't until I was old that I found that old wine, old dogs, old friends and old wives were the best.
there is old wine by my side, an old dog by my feet, an old friend in front and an old wife by my side.
Old wine forgets worries, old dogs warm their feet, old friends cheer, and old wives feel at ease.
one day, when I lost my way, I realized that what I was looking for all my life was nothing but a home. "
many people live a lifetime to really understand that no matter how hot-blooded and powerful they are when they are young, when they are old, they are accompanied by loved ones, and that is the real winner in life.
money, fame and fortune are only things outside the body, life does not bring death without taking away, only home, love, is the most solid support of a person's heart.
some time ago, a video of an old man pushing his wife on his bike went viral on the Internet.
after watching it, many people said: this is the most beautiful love I have ever seen!
as the saying goes, "if you don't have an old partner, an old husband and wife knows how to live in peace." that's all you can say.
I never envy the lovers holding hands in the street. I only envy the old people who support each other and love each other in the deep alleys.
but the biggest regret in life is that when we are too old to go anywhere, we do not have the company of our loved ones.
there is an old couple abroad who agreed to take pictures in the same place every year as a souvenir, which lasted for eight years.
in the ninth year, only the old man stood alone, without the figure of his lover.
the book says: "looking back 500 times in a previous life, you can only pass by once in this life."
how many times does it take to look back in exchange for a couple in this life?
in this world, there are not many people who are sincere to you, and there are few people who can be accompanied by wind and rain all the time.
but there is always a person who comes to us through a sea of people and accompanies each other through the long stream. No matter how small the life is, it is down-to-earth and happy.
even at the end of my life, I can still proudly say that I have lived up to the deep love of this life.