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there is a book review in the White Night Walk:

"there are two things in this world that cannot be looked directly at, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.

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when I look back at this sentence, I find that if this is the case, there are many things the eyes can see, but few can look directly at them.

it's not easy to really identify a person. Sometimes the lesson hurts as much as the trust.

as a man, don't trust a person too easily, or you'll end up hurting yourself.

seven points of vigilance to friends, three points of trust

there is a kind of fragrance in life, called "nose-touching fragrance", which means that the smell of something is so strong that it can't melt away from the nose.

"incense" used to be a good word, but when the smell is too much, it begins to be painful.

the same is true between friends. No matter how good the relationship is, you should have some reservations, otherwise you will go too far.

I have heard such a story:

the fox and the hedgehog are good friends. The fox said, you are covered with thorns, I dare not touch you.

said the fox, oh. And then eat the hedgehog in this way.

A person who makes friends with you one second may take advantage of your weakness to hurt you the next.

as the saying goes, "you can't do harm to others, but you can't guard against others."

it is not hypocritical to be on guard against your friends, because this thing is so valuable that you will be cherished only if you give it to someone who is really trustworthy.

Weibo, there was a popular search for "a girl asked her best friend to resign but was stood up."

the girl Xiao Xu and her colleague Xiao Yang have a very close relationship. They often eat and go shopping together, which is helpful, and they gradually become good girlfriends who talk about everything.

for a period of time, Xiao Yang complained from time to time that wages were falling and customers were difficult to talk about. He proposed to resign with Xiao Xu and become a boss in partnership.

Xiao Xu feels the same way and is very moved.

after being scolded by his boss, Xiao Xu decisively resigned and agreed to wait for Xiao Yang to resign and start a business together.

Xiao Yang promised to resign immediately after he was busy with the two cases at hand.

so Xiao Xu began to prepare to open a shop with joy, not only to inspect the store, but also to win the support of his parents.

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but she didn't want to leave her job for a month, she happened to learn from her former colleagues that Xiao Yang had no intention to resign at all and even volunteered to work overtime on May Day.

We usually think that many friends have multiple paths, but it is the so-called "friends" who often get in the way.

when you are alive, you never know.

when we make friends, we must be more open-minded. Don't want to give the whole world to you just because others give you a smile.

painting the skin of a tiger is hard to draw a bone.

never trust a person easily, even your closest friends, be on your guard.

eight percent enthusiasm for feelings, two distractions

when you trust one person without hesitation, there are only two results:

either he is the one, or he will be the worst lesson in your life.

Last year, a girl left a suicide note and died by burning charcoal at home, which sparked a heated debate.

in the suicide note, the girl confessed that she had been cheated out of more than NT $200,000, even misappropriated her father's money for medical treatment, borrowed more than NT $100,000 in loans, and owed tens of thousands of yuan to her friends, but had no choice but to end her life because she was unable to repay it.

the girl's parents can't figure out how her thrifty, obedient daughter owes a lot of money.

only later did the police know that the girl was caught in an online fraud called "pig killing plate"!

"Pig killing plate" is a kind of investment fraud in the name of making friends, through the cultivation of feelings to gain the full trust of each other, and then seduce the victims.

in the words of a liar, "the victim is the one we raised in love."

Pig

', the longer you keep it, the harder you kill. "

in the face of the swindler's well-designed care, the girl thought she had met the right one, but she didn't want to be the fish on the chopping block.

in feelings, it is not easy to treat feelings rationally and keep a clear head all the time.

as long as they feel a bit of love, many people want to do their best to give, even if the other party has a bad record, they will try to find a reason for themselves to prevaricate, and in the end they will only make themselves hurt and regret.

when Yuya, a well-known beauty blogger, released a video of himself being subjected to domestic violence, it surprised everyone.

Yu Ya said that when he first met his boyfriend, he putHis talent is so ostentatious that he is not only convinced but also attracted by the "talent" he has created.

but after two people are together, the other person will not only scold himself for trifles, but also ask himself to sever the relationship with his parents like him.

after the first domestic violence, her boyfriend apologized and Yu Ya chose to forgive.

what awaits her is a spate of domestic violence, so that she lives in nightmares every day.

many girls are too kind-hearted to give up this relationship. As long as the boys kneel and apologize, they are immediately soft-hearted, but no bottom line forgiveness will only encourage them to take an inch.

in a relationship, no matter how much you love someone, don't love too much, love too quickly, and don't endlessly believe each other's promises.

if you love very much, you can take eight points to love, and pay attention to the remaining two points. After all, cheating money is small, and life is the most terrible!

how many detours must a person take before he knows how to love himself and then love others.

Pig

', the longer you keep it, the harder you kill. "

in the face of the swindler's well-designed care, the girl thought she had met the right one, but she didn't want to be the fish on the chopping block.

in feelings, it is not easy to treat feelings rationally and keep a clear head all the time.

as long as they feel a bit of love, many people want to do their best to give, even if the other party has a bad record, they will try to find a reason for themselves to prevaricate, and in the end they will only make themselves hurt and regret.

when Yuya, a well-known beauty blogger, released a video of himself being subjected to domestic violence, it surprised everyone.

Yu Ya said that when he first met his boyfriend, he putHis talent is so ostentatious that he is not only convinced but also attracted by the "talent" he has created.

but after two people are together, the other person will not only scold himself for trifles, but also ask himself to sever the relationship with his parents like him.

after the first domestic violence, her boyfriend apologized and Yu Ya chose to forgive.

what awaits her is a spate of domestic violence, so that she lives in nightmares every day.

many girls are too kind-hearted to give up this relationship. As long as the boys kneel and apologize, they are immediately soft-hearted, but no bottom line forgiveness will only encourage them to take an inch.

in a relationship, no matter how much you love someone, don't love too much, love too quickly, and don't endlessly believe each other's promises.

if you love very much, you can take eight points to love, and pay attention to the remaining two points. After all, cheating money is small, and life is the most terrible!

how many detours must a person take before he knows how to love himself and then love others.

Don't trust anyone easily,

and don't overestimate your relationship with anyone

the stupidest thing in life is to overestimate your place in the hearts of others.

for those who think you are true friends, good brothers and righteous people, you may just be an ordinary passer-by in the eyes of others.

not everyone deserves your unreserved trust, let alone show your heart to everyone.

people will change, too blindly to trust a person, one day will be hurt to pieces.

instead of pinning the hope of life on others, it is better to maintain an indifferent attitude to any relationship, do not give up trust, and do not trust easily.

A man had a big quarrel with his friend, and the two broke off contact.

after calming down, he felt that it was a pity that the friendship over the years had broken up like this, so he wanted to find friends to make up, but was told that it was impossible.

he was depressed and depressed all day. When his father saw this, he took him for a walk by the river.

his father asked him to grab a handful of sand in the palm of his hand. He held it so tightly that some of the sand slipped through his fingers.

his father asked him to open his palm, and this time the sand was piled firmly in the palm of his hand like a hill.

then the father said, "the relationship between people is like the sand in your hands. The more tightly you grasp, the faster you will lose. The person who is really worth retaining will not go away."

people come and go, not all relationships can go to the end, some people, do not need to care too much, it is better to let go.

one mistake in life lies in the belief in the heart; the two mistakes in life are difficult for people to distinguish; the three mistakes in life lie in not listening.

you can be kind-hearted, but you can't know nothing about human nature; you can be sincere, but never trust a person easily.

the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

therefore, do not overestimate any relationship, do not underestimate any kind of long-term love.

it is enough to face the people and things in life calmly and not to wronge yourself or owe others.

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