some people say: most of the pain in life, in fact, you are competing with yourself.

fall into the failure of a relationship and collapse over and over again in sorrow.

because he was depressed because he failed to achieve his desired goal, he was in a state of panic in self-remorse.

this is the way life is. Nine times out of ten, no one knows whether fate will prepare candy or lemon for you.

if life is too difficult, try to let yourself go.

people you meet in your life, follow your fate

Sakyamuni once said: no matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. It is no accident that he will teach you something.

people live a lifetime, meet countless people, some accompany you through life, some accompany you through a journey.

those who hurt you bring you growth; those who help you bring you warmth.

you can never predict how long the people around you will be with you, and you can't force a relationship with anyone.

the only thing I can do is to cherish every fate, not to embarrass others, nor to injure myself.

getting lucky, losing my life, getting together and parting are the best arrangements.

try your best to overcome the hurdle that is difficult to overcome.

when we were young, we all thought that as long as we did our best, we would always get the results we wanted.

as I get older, I realize that there are always some hurdles in this world that are difficult to overcome, and not everything is what I want it to be.

Don't overestimate your ability, don't add too much pressure to life, and don't let life lose its vitality.

there is a saying quite right: do your best first, then do your best, and then listen to your destiny.

work hard at the critical moment, try your best, and leave the rest to providence.

obsession with troubles on your mind, take a light view

there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, death, love and parting, resentment for a long time, can not ask, can not let go.

most of people's pain is just because the obsession in their hearts is too deep, reluctant to give up, and unwilling to lose.

think about it, all troubles, after all, actually come from three things:

other people's business, own business, God's business.

if you want to live thoroughly, you must learn not to meddle in your own affairs, not to meddle in other people's affairs, and not to worry about the affairs of God.

those who are willing are tired, but those who are careless don't care.

A big dream of the world, there is no more worry about being light.

endless desires, let go

recently, many people's lives have changed.

used to want too much, "fame and wealth, material" like a bottomless pit engulfing our hearts again and again.

now that I have seen many sufferings in the world, I finally find that desire is nihilistic and far less precious than diesel, rice, oil and salt.

throwing away desire is another kind of acquisition; letting go of desire is another kind of possession.

one day, you will understand: between a vegetable and a meal, there is also warmth, not driven by material, so that you will not be so tired.

when the decision is broken, the giving up is to give up, so as to break up the separation, in order to regain inner freedom.

as the old saying goes: when you cling to your thoughts, you are helpless; when you put them down, you feel at ease.

can't let go of the past, forgive

if a drop of ink is mixed into a glass of water, the color of the whole glass of water will change, but if the drop of ink falls into the sea, there will be no change.

as big as your heart is, there is room for happiness.

the reason why people live too tired is to complain about the past, and the reason why life has not changed is because you always step back.

then live forever in the past, never go back, never look forward.

understand that every day that you can't let go of today will be your bitter yesterday.

the environment is created by the heart, things change with the heart, no longer care, tolerance of others, but also tolerance of themselves.

forgive everything before you go to bed, and a new life when you wake up.

A life you can't start over, with all your heart

writer Cai Lan has a saying to the point:

"study as much as possible, try your best, travel as much as possible, eat good food as much as possible, life is better, it's as simple as that."

when people reach middle age, they gradually return to a calm state of mind and look at everything in the world with an ordinary mind.

since this life cannot be repeated, in the limited time, be grateful for yesterday, grasp today, and look forward to tomorrow.

as long as you do your best, you can build what kind of house you have, and do as difficult things as you can.

do not make do with life, do not dwell on gains and losses, contentment, can always be happy.

imperfect self, accept

how many people, all their lives, do not want to accept their own ordinary, but also always hate their own imperfections.

but in fact, 90% of the people in the world are ordinary people, and you can't make everyone like it, and you can't stand up to everyone.

who does not grow up through trial and error and admits that he or she is not perfect is a compulsory course in life.

to make peace with yourself is to give life the greatest sincerity.

Do you want to buy the funky petite bridesmaid dresses and show off your body? Perfect choices for your big day!

only by accepting the trivial arrangement of fate can there be poetry and distance after growing up.

Love yourself well. When you come to earth, always look down at your feet, but don't forget to look up at the stars.

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Ma deWhen I let myself go, I wrote:

"whether a person is happy or not depends on whether he can fall asleep and whether he wants to wake up.

to be able to sleep means peace of mind, and a clear conscience before; if you want to wake up, it means that you have a beautiful heart, that's what you want now. Life is nothing but the happiness of these six words. "

for the rest of my life, try my best to deal with life, try my best to face setbacks, and try my best to find every happiness.

letting go of yourself is the fulfillment of life.

, may you sleep soundly and live peacefully in the days to come.