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I used to like to buy high heels, slender heels and stylish walking.

but if you walk a little more, your feet will hurt and may even be skinned.

gradually I don't want to pursue anything without wind. When my feet are comfortable, I feel comfortable.

feelings are the same. Relationships that are out of tune are always tiring. Only when you get along comfortably can you last a long time.

the feet know whether the shoes fit or not; the heart is clear if the person is in tune or not.

the rest of my life is long, shoes have to be comfortable, people have to be comfortable.

A couple of my friends got married some time ago.

I am not surprised at this result at all, because not long after they were together, the girl said to me:

she thinks that the conversation between the two people is really in tune, the way in which you can Get to the second half of the sentence after I finish the first half of the sentence. It's so comfortable.

what does it look like when feelings are put into life? Nothing more than eating a lot of meals together, saying a lot of words, good morning and a good night's sleep.

so two people who are in tune must have similar values and similar goals in life.

they are not used to staying up late, are willing to constantly refine their financial plans and let them fall to the ground, they all like sports, they can take the initiative to examine their own problems and do not take each other's efforts for granted.

under such a premise, the difference in trivial things such as he loves coriander and she never eats it is just the spice of life.

but the two people who are not in tune with each other in the general direction are doomed to talk to each other.

Song Yunhui and Cheng Kaiyan in "Great Rivers" always put laws and regulations first, but the other thinks that accepting gifts from individual people can be regarded as accepting bribes.

isn't it normal for a husband to transfer a post to his mother's family when the family helps each other?

ideas are not consistent, after all, the two people gradually drifted apart in quarrels, and finally had to separate.

We search all our lives in order to find the fragments of our partner, to make ourselves complete and to save loneliness. The two soul fragments that are not in tune are destined to be unable to piece together a complete jigsaw puzzle.

it's easy to like, but too difficult to be in tune.

Voltaire said:

"it is not the distant mountain that makes people tired, but a grain of sand in the shoe."

after work, I feel more and more sympathetic to this sentence.

most of the time, what makes people feel tired and helpless is not the work itself, but the people and things encountered at work, dealing with all kinds of ghosts and spirits, and being friendly and smiling at the same time.

and most relationships eventually collapse, often not because of earth-shaking events, but because there are too many disappointments in the little things, so they don't want to maintain them any longer.

whether they are colleagues, friends, relatives or loved ones, they are all the same.

once there is sand in the shoe, it is not difficult to be patient, but no one can live with that grain of sand for the rest of his life.

I had a friend in Qimai High School. They lived in the same building and were in the same class when they were at school. They naturally grew up playing together.

A lot of things seem to have changed slowly since then.

the other party thinks that Qimai is in a big city, that is, people who make a lot of money, and of course she should pay for dinner together.

sometimes when she gets together, she will also have to walk some things of Qimai, such as samples of skin care products sent by the counter, such as a pair of cups newly bought by Qimai, and so on.

although Qimai is not very comfortable, he has been a friend for many years and has never said anything.

until the other party's birthday last year, he asked Qimai for a limited edition perfume and asked Qimai to give it to her as a birthday present.

that perfume is expensive, and as Qimai said, "you didn't give it to me for my birthday."

the other party took it for granted: "I am not you. Do you, a man who makes a lot of money, send me a gift?"

even explanations are superfluous. Qimai simply blocked each other and will not communicate with each other any more.

all relationships are mutual, and if only one party keeps making concessions, it would be better to say goodbye earlier.

Life is very short, so be sure to live comfortably with people who are in tune with you.

it's important not to clog yourself, to give up relationships that make you tired, and to set aside time to cherish those who get along.

later, we will all find that a smaller circle, clean words and deeds, a self-disciplined life, time alone, and a positive life are the most comfortable.

inappropriate shoes are not as comfortable as good-looking shoes; low-quality social interaction, no matter how lively, is not as comfortable as high-quality celibacy.

the road of life, bumpy, well-fitting shoes, can take a good road; the vast sea of people, meet countless people, in tune with people, can walk side by side.

as Su Qin said:

"stay with whoever you are comfortable with, including friends, and stay away when you are tired." Those who can enter my heart will be treated as kings, and those who do not enter my heart will disdain to be perfunctory. "

all good relationships must be comfortable, but as for those that make you feel tired, you must let go as soon as possible.

if you are not tired of getting along, you will never get tired of being with each other for a long time.

, I hope you and the person in your heart are lucky enough to meet and coincide with each other.

for the rest of your life, remember to leave your time and energy to be in tune and worth it. Okay?

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