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May you always be loyal to yourself and be open-minded and beautiful.

an uncle

there must be times in life when you can't make it.

sometimes, it is just the end of an unforgettable love, when you were alone.

sometimes, it is difficult to solve the bottleneck at work, one side is the responsibility and the other is the ideal, colliding with each other.

or, the departure of relatives, the estrangement of friends, the endless trivialities of life.

at this time, we always find it hard to hide our feelings of loss, complain about God's injustice, and even feel that we are about to fail.

but isn't life always like this?

after crying and pain, life still has to go on with clenched teeth.

Today's

column, Uncle would like to share a song

"your answer"

if you are going through a difficult time at the moment, I hope you don't give up easily.

because everyone's life is not smooth, get over it, life will always give you the answer you want.

Human joys and sorrows are not the same

I read a story about two fat and thin monks going down the mountain together to make love.

on the way, a mosquito landed on a thin monk. He was so thin and itchy that he was about to beat the mosquito to death, when the fat monk said, "monks can't kill."

when the skinny monk heard this, he gave up and had to endure it all the way.

after a while, a mosquito fell on the fat monk, and he didn't wait for the thin monk to stop it.

as soon as the fat monk's hand was raised and fell, the mosquito died, leaving the thin monk dumbfounded.

aren't most of us the fat monks?

advise you to be magnanimous, to be happy, to forgive, but if mosquitoes don't bite themselves, you never know how uncomfortable it is.

people spend a lot of their lives walking alone.

countless worries can only be buried in the deepest heart, can not cross the heart river, can not go up to the other side.

is also as sung in the lyrics: "maybe the world is like this, and I am still on my way, and no one can tell."

our hearts grow in ourselves, ups and downs, only to taste, to ask others to understand your feelings, no matter how loud it is in vain.

because you are the only one who can really understand you.

this reminds me of a variety show, when Ma Weiwei mentioned that she was sad because of depression, Gao Xiaosong said:

"yours is nothing. We are much worse off than you."

then Cai Kangyong refuted him:

"it doesn't hurt when you stand up and talk. You can't compare other people's pain with your pain. It's not yours that hurts, but it doesn't hurt others."

but in life, real empathy and empathy are so rare.

more often, it is just like a fish drinking water, knowing whether it is cold or warm.

but we always have to go through a period of unattended days alone before we can meet the flowers and applause.

even if you want to escape today, you still have to muster up all the courage to face it before the sun rises tomorrow.

loneliness is the norm of life

Maugham wrote in the Moon and sixpence:

each of our lives is lonely in the world. Although our bodies lean on each other, we are not together. We neither know nor be understood by others.

he even spent hours thinking about death and why he was born.

the wheelchair turned over, and Shi Tiesheng didn't like to shout, so he sat on the ground and picked up the wheelchair first, and then pushed himself up with his arms.

such a man struggled with life for several years, and then he finally figured it out:

"when a person is born, it is no longer an issue that can be debated, but a fact given to him by God;

when God gave us this fact, he has guaranteed its result by the way, so death is a matter that does not need to be rushed, and death is a holiday that is bound to come.

after he got over it, he accepted this unfortunate and cruel reality with optimism and wrote down the most sound and fullest thoughts in words.

playwright Ibsen said: the strongest man in the world is the one who stands alone on his own.

maybe there is the most painful year in everyone's life; maybe we gradually become depressed by running day after day.

but if you change your posture, you will find that even if you are in a desperate situation, there will be unexpected scenery around you.

as long as there is light in the heart, even in the dark, you can see the direction of the road ahead.

A Yu sings

the light of dawn

will cross the darkness

break all fears I can

find the answer

Yes, when you can't hold on, grit your teeth and stick to it. Looking back, you've come a long way and stopped, and all your efforts have come to an abrupt end.

is it true that God helps without the help of hands, and help from others can not be achieved in heaven?

before reaching the lightYou must go through the darkness and through loneliness before you can hold the stars and the sea in your heart.

the world of adults is a world of joys and sorrows

Yang Jiang said in her speech at the age of one hundred: "in this materialistic world, being a man is really hard enough."

it is precisely because it is bitter enough that you have to wait, so you have to be patient, and happiness will not come uninvited until the tribulation has been defeated.

but regardless of success or failure, never expect anyone to be your savior on this journey of life.

every adult should be his own silent ferryman.

when Berridge, chairman of Mobil Oil, visited the work, he saw a young man kowtowing piously while working.

Berridge was surprised and asked him why he did it.

the boy replied:

"I am thanking a saint who helped me find this job and got me a job."

Berridge smiled and said:

"I once met a saint, because of him, I have everything now. It is said that everyone who meets him will have good luck. Do you want to know him?"

since he is a saint, the young man said he would like to visit.

Berridge told him that the saint lived on a famous mountain nearby and that he could be found by climbing it.

after saying goodbye to Belic, the young man hit the road.

after cutting through all the difficulties and sleeping in the open, he finally climbed the mountain. However, he wandered around the top of the mountain all day and didn't meet anyone.

the boy was so disappointed that he went back to the chairman of the board.

Belic said, "you're right. There are no saints." Because you are your own saint. "

20 years later, the young man became the general manager of Mobil Oil's Cape Town branch. When asked by many reporters about his legendary life, he said this sentence:

"the day you find yourself is the beginning of success in life. You are the only one who can work miracles. "

as the saying goes: relying on others is a fake, and you have to climb when you fall.

there are many hardships in life, which can only be overcome by self-crossing.

like the lyrics of "your answer" very much:

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accept all the ridicule

embrace the rainbow to the wind

move forward bravely

the long journey of life includes years of peace and stability, as well as vagrancy and camping.

No one is born a hero. They all rise abruptly based on accumulated strength after experiencing despair and hardship.

the really strong is not those who do not have tears, but those who still run with tears.

as Xi Murong said: "setbacks will come, they will pass, tears will flow down, and they will stop. Nothing can discourage me, because I have a long life."

May all your sufferings and sorrows turn into the seeds of happiness.

May you live thoroughly and do freely and easily at any time;

May you always be loyal to yourself, open-minded and beautiful, warm and pure, all the way to the sun.

an uncle

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