Only when people are done well can things be done well.
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I have read such a story in which someone invited Mr. fengshui to his graveyard to see fengshui. On the way, he saw birds flying in the direction of the graveyard and panicked.
he guessed that there was an urchin picking fruit on the tree, and for fear that the child would fall from the tree when he got there, he let Mr. fengshui go back.
the man was puzzled, and Mr. fengshui said, "Don't you know?" The best feng shui in the world is character! "
everyone knows that fengshui nourishes people, but they do not know that people also raise fengshui.
Confucius said: if a superior man lives in it, why is it so humble?
No matter how bad feng shui is, it cannot resist the brilliance of the virtuous.
Destiny may have its own destiny, but fengshui can be changed by itself.
born a human being, no matter whether it is triumphant or perilous, you should keep in mind that
at any time, character is a person's greatest capital and strongest backer.
character is a person's hardest card
what is the most valuable thing in one's life?
there will be days when money will run out, when prices will plummet, and only good character will never decay.
A young man found a job in a sales job. before that, he was the sales champion of the original company, and he was able to answer all kinds of difficult questions from customers.
later, an interviewer asked him, "what do you think is the best indication of your sales ability in your sales career?"
the boy thought for a moment and replied, "when I was in my last company, I successfully recommended a nurse training worth 5,000 yuan to the cleaning aunt who earns two or three thousand yuan a month."
the young man thought his answer was perfect, but he didn't expect to get the job offer a week later.
call the interviewer, and the interviewer says bluntly, "I don't doubt your ability, but I don't like your character."
the young man's sales ability is indeed very strong, but he does not consider how the cleaning aunt who earns only two or three thousand yuan a month can afford it and how many maintenance problems it will bring to the company in the later stage.
as Goethe said, "it doesn't matter whether you are born noble or humble, but you must have the way to be a man."
it is human instinct to do everything from one's own point of view.
but those who think of others and think of others in their hearts are truly kind and generous.
people with good character are open and aboveboard, sincere and reliable, even if they are mediocre, they will stand out, and even if they fall into the doldrums, there are people who lend a helping hand.
on the contrary, those who lose their character for petty gain will only end up in trouble and no one will answer for help.
there are many smart and capable people in this world, but only character is the pass to socialize.
in this life, we may not be extremely rich, even less famous in history, but with good character, we have already got the hardest cards.
A man cannot lose his integrity when he is poor, and he cannot lose his conscience when he is rich.
if the character is good, the road will become wider and wider
there is a saying in Zuo Zhuan: "there is virtue, followed by meritorious service, followed by words, which have been spread for a long time, which is called immortality."
the so-called "Li de", that is to say, a person must have a good character.
there are thousands of difficulties in the world, and it is most difficult to know people, but as long as the character is good, everything will be all right.
when Yu Minhong is mentioned, many people call him "the godfather of studying abroad" and "the richest man among teachers", but few people know the things behind his founding of New Oriental.
at the beginning of New Oriental, there was an urgent need for a large number of outstanding talents. in order to "tempt" students to return home, Yu Minhong spends a lot of money abroad every day in order to let them know that they can make money even if they return home.
later, the students came back, but the reason was very unexpected:
"We came back because you swept the land for us for four years and poured water for four years. We know that if you have something to eat, you will certainly not give us porridge. "
it turns out that when he was a student at Peking University, his dormitory never arranged a sanitary watch list.
Yu Minhong cleans the dormitory every day and fetches water for his classmates. when the school shows a movie, he carries the stool of the whole dormitory to occupy a seat. I've been doing it for four years, rain or shine.
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We often say that appreciation of a person begins with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.
what on earth is a good character?
it probably means that you are the same as you appear to be, not double-faced, do things openly, do not play tricks, and treat people sincerely, without hypocrisy and treachery.
the world is not stupid. If you show your heart to others, you will have friends to share hardships; if you show hypocrisy to others, there will be villains to make trouble.
there is no shortage of rich people in this world, and there is no shortage of people of status, but there are few people who have set their minds to it.
leniency of heart and integrity of character is the foundation of being a man.
the reason why successful people go wider and wider is that they are reliable and reliable, and people believe in doing things.
youdao is: those who are virtuous and rich take advantage of the situation of wealth; those who are not virtuous and rich take advantage of the situation of wealth and wealth to destroy their bodies.
moral character, guarantee of doing things, and character of career are the only way to success.
be a man, never neglect your character
the famous poet Heine once said a sutra.In the words of Dian: "Life cannot produce brilliant flowers from lies."
A person of good character would rather be aggrieved than hurt the interests of others. No one is willing to have a heart-to-heart relationship with him.
on the contrary, people tend to stay away from those who have nothing to lose and can't stand the anger.
many people like to watch Guo Degang talk crosstalk, nothing more than to be able to interpret the truth of current life from those gag jokes.
there is a section of crosstalk in which it is mentioned that there are three kinds of people who cannot have sex:
first, those who go out to take a taxi to grab the back seat can not be handed in. Because it is usually convenient for those who take the front seat to pay.
the second is to go to the bathhouse and take off your clothes quickly, but you can't hand in those who wear clothes slowly. Because most of them are checked out first.
the third is that restaurants eat quickly, and those who go to the bathroom after checking out cannot be handed in. Because by the time he came out, the bill would have been settled.
when you think about it, the words are not rough. These three kinds of people are really clever, but their character is indescribable.
when you see that your interests are damaged, you will try to avoid it. No matter how good the person is, no one will want to associate with him.
so if you want to know about a person's character, you might as well see how he reacts when there is a conflict of interest with him.
as the saying goes: benefit intersects, benefit does its best, and potential intersects, and potential goes away.
A person can be without money and power, but not without virtue, because once his character collapses, most of his good fortune will cease to exist.
A good character is the integrity and kindness flowing in the blood, the dignity and backbone hidden in the bones!
only with virtue can you carry things, and only with inner saints can you make outer kings.
the ancients said: be virtuous and carry things.
means that if a person has a good virtue, there is nothing he cannot control. On the contrary, without morality, it is very difficult to achieve great things.
in history, Liu Bei went from having no generals and no place to stand, to the end, when the three Kingdoms stood together and divided the world equally, based on his character.
many people think that "Liu Bei's rivers and mountains cry", but in fact it is not.
apart from the character of perseverance and knowing how to make good use of people, the most important thing for Liu Bei is to be benevolent and righteous, to be loyal to his brothers, to salute his subjects, and to be kind to the people.
"there is much support for those who gain the way, but there is little support for those who lose the way." this is exactly what he said.
people live all their lives, in the final analysis, what they spell is character.
people with good character treat people sincerely and magnanimously, have help in case of trouble, and have help when they fall down.
if you act with a conscience, you can gain a firm foothold at any time.
therefore, in this life, do not have nothing without conscience, do not lose anything humiliating character.
only when people do a good job first can things be done well.
in this life, try to live as you like. May you live up to heaven and earth, live up to your conscience, live up to your time, and live up to yourself wherever you go.